Step Into the Next Version of You — Depth Coaching for women in seasons of reinvention

I coach thoughtful women to uncover and shift identity and relationship patterns that keep them stuck — using a depth‑informed 3‑step coaching method:

Identify → Practice → Sustain.

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The Belonging Pattern™

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Archetypal and Enneagram lens for emotional clarity, growth, and pattern awareness worldwide.

If you’re feeling stuck in identity, relationship, or dating patterns that are leaving you unfulfilled, you’ve come to the right place.

If you’re here, something in you is ready for a change.

It’s an honour to meet you at this turning point.

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Who I work with

This work is especially resonant for women who:

• Feel exhausted by modern dating dynamics and want something more mutual, steady, and aligned
• Are navigating relocation or living abroad and notice how old identity and relationship patterns follow them across contexts
• Are drawn to archetypes, the Enneagram, and understanding the deeper patterns driving their choices

It is time to realize you can become freer.

Hi, I’m Rebecca

In Depth Coaching, we go far beyond surface-level strategies. Together, we examine the deeper patterns, beliefs, and narratives that shape how you move through your life — and decide which ones still serve you.

This process is about gaining the clarity to choose differently — and building relationships and a life where you feel important, prioritized, and deeply met.

My coaching is conversational, collaborative, and insight-driven. With over a decade of experience in depth-oriented work, I help you access clarity quickly, so each session becomes a space where insight turns into confident action.

There’s a version of you that’s been waiting to take the lead…

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specializing in three archetypal experiences:

Transforming the Emotional Orphan, Helper, & Scapegoat Archetype Patterns

Have you felt unseen, overly responsible for others, or unsure of where you belong?

Together, we will work toward developing a stronger sense of self, clearer boundaries, and a more empowered personal vision.

the emotional orphan archetype

The Orphan reflects someone who learned early to handle feelings alone and now struggles to trust support or belonging. This is highly connected to the archetype of “The Wanderer.”

the helper archetype

The Helper often meets others’ needs first, often at the expense of their own needs, wants, or boundaries. They may feel most secure when they are useful, appreciated, or depended on.

water landscape representing Scapegoat archetype in depth coaching, representing rejection wounds, chronic shame, and identity loss in archetypal and Enneagram-based coaching 
the scapegoat archetype

The Scapegoat forms when someone is repeatedly assigned blame, burden, or emotional responsibility. Misunderstood and often labelled as “too much,” “not enough,” “too sensitive,” or “the difficult one.”

butterfly on a woman's head symbolizing Depth coaching of personal transformation, identity healing, and self-leadership through archetypal and Enneagram-based coaching

Welcome…

To a deeper way of seeing yourself…

In a world that often asks us to define ourselves through titles, roles, performance, or productivity, my approach invites you back to something older, wiser, and far more intimate: your patterned, symbolic life.

I’m here to help you see the patterns that shape your life, so you can meet them with consciousness, compassion, and choice.

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What you're experiencing right now...

  • The same reactions, the same roles you slip into, the same internal narrative that pulls you back into an old version of yourself.

  • You can name it.
    But you can’t seem to break it.

  • Or shutting down, carrying too much responsibility, or losing yourself in someone else’s needs.
    Maybe it’s avoiding decisions, spiralling in self-criticism, or repeating the same relational dynamic no matter how many times you try to “start fresh.”

    You’ve outgrown these patterns — but they still run your life

  • Your Enneagram instincts, your schemas, your learned roles, your internal archetypes…
    the deeper “why” beneath the behaviours.

  • Clarity that helps you see the pattern, interrupt it, and finally choose something different.

  • You’re tired of abandoning yourself the moment things get hard.
    You’re tired of repeating a story that doesn’t match who you are becoming.

  • You want to build boundaries that hold.
    You want real inner freedom.

And you're ready to take the next step...

~james hillman~
“Anytime you’re gonna grow, you’re gonna lose something. You’re losing what you’re hanging onto to keep safe”