Designing a Life That Fits™
Coaching for intentional change, deeper self-understanding, and meaningful life design.
Together, we'll create clarity about who you are now—and begin creating a life that reflects it.
For the person you've become—and the life you're ready to create.
for growth-oriented peopleBEGIN YOUR JOURNEY
You can feel change looming on the horizon.
Maybe you've outgrown your city. Maybe you’ve stalled in your career. Maybe you’re finally ready to release a pattern or role that’s keeping you stuck.
Or maybe you have no idea what your next step is, but you do know that it’s time to take it.
It’s okay if you don’t have all the answers right now. We can figure it out—together.
Designing a Life That Fits™ — At a Glance
45-minute virtual sessions
Designed for thoughtful people navigating life transitions and identity shifts
Integrates pattern recognition, identity exploration, and practical life design
Personalized to your unique goals, values, and circumstances
How Do I Know I’m Ready for Designing a Life That Fits™?
You may find yourself asking:
✨ Is this the life I actually want?
✨ Why do I keep repeating certain patterns?
✨ What am I missing?
✨ What comes next?
✨ How do I create a life that feels more like my own?
Designing a Life That Fits™ is coaching for people navigating the space between an old chapter and a new one.
We'll explore what you've outgrown, clarify what matters most now, and begin creating a life that reflects who you’re becoming.
DESIGNING A LIFE THAT FITS™—THE PROCESS
While every coaching relationship is unique, our work generally unfolds through four interconnected phases:
Self-Understanding
Every meaningful change begins with understanding. The more clearly you understand yourself, the easier it becomes to make decisions that fit.
Together we explore…
Behavioral patterns: The recurring habits that shape your daily decisions and lifestyle.
Core values: The foundational beliefs that drive your fulfillment.
Motivations and blind spots: The hidden drivers and unseen obstacles in your way.
Personality profiling: Deep-dive insights using frameworks like the Enneagram.
Archetypal identities: The subconscious roles and identities you naturally take on.
Identity Development
Many people come to coaching because an old identity no longer fits. Whether you're navigating a major transition or simply sensing you've outgrown your current path, this phase explores who you are becoming and what kind of life will support that new version of you.
During this phase, we focus on:
Navigating transitions: Embracing the messy middle of personal and professional evolution.
Future-self visioning: Clarifying the traits and habits of the person you want to become.
Releasing old narratives: Letting go of outdated labels and expectations that no longer serve you.
Aligning environments: Structuring your relationships and daily life to support your growth.
Meaning-Making
Growth isn't only about deciding what comes next. It's also about understanding the experiences that have shaped your journey so far. As your experiences begin to make more sense, clarity often follows.
Together we explore:
Major transitions: Processing the impact of recent personal or professional shifts.
Significant life experiences: Extracting wisdom from pivotal moments in your history.
Internal conflicts: Resolving the tension between competing desires and fears.
Personal values: Redefining what matters most to you in this current chapter.
Purpose and fulfillment: Uncovering the deeper meaning behind your daily pursuits.
Life Design
Once clarity begins to emerge, we shift our focus to intentional action. Together, we begin deliberately building a life that accurately reflects exactly who you are right now.
This hands-on strategy may include:
Career decisions: Aligning your professional path with your authentic skills and energy.
Boundary setting: Protecting your time, space, and energy from external drains.
Lifestyle changes: Re-engineering your daily routines for better health and balance.
Relocation mapping: Evaluating physical moves to find an environment that fits you.
Creative pursuits: Carving out space for passion projects and artistic expression.
New directions: Mapping out concrete, actionable next steps for your future.
Why Designing a Life Matters to Me.I created Designing a Life That Fits™ because this isn't just work I believe in—it's work I've lived.
Many of us spend years building a life that looks exceptional on paper, but leaves us feeling restless and unfulfilled.
We buy into cultural ideas of what we should want, value, and pursue, while ignoring what would truly make us happy. Over time, it becomes easy to lose sight of what actually fits us.
For years, both in my own life and with my therapy clients, I kept returning to the exact same questions:
What do I actually want when no one is watching?
What matters most to me?
What kind of life would genuinely feel like mine?
By centering these questions in my work, I learned something that changed the way I approached coaching and self-development forever:
True transformation isn’t about forcing yourself to become someone different. It’s about becoming who you truly are.
That is the heart of 1:1 coaching with me.
Instead of copying an inherited blueprint for success, we bring your career, relationships, lifestyle, and future direction into alignment with what’s real for you.
This isn't about manufacturing a flawless, picture-perfect existence. It’s about building a life that feels increasingly honest, meaningful, and true to you.
Areas We Can Explore Together.Coaching can offer space to explore:
Purpose, Fulfillment & Career
Exploring meaningful work, career transitions, burnout recovery, and purpose.
Life Change and Adjustment
Navigating career shifts, relationship changes, relocation, or major life decisions.
Identity, Belonging & Lifestyle
Exploring identity, belonging, freedom, stability, or the challenges of living an unconventional life.
Enneagram & Self-Understanding
Using frameworks to better understand your motivations, patterns, strengths, and blind spots.
Midlife & Identity Transitions
Exploring changing priorities, evolving identity, and shifting definitions of success.
Boundaries & Assertiveness
Learning to identify your needs, communicate more clearly, reduce resentment, and create healthier dynamics with others.
Personal Growth & Reinvention
Growing into deeper authenticity and building a bridge to the next chapter.
What you're experiencing right now.You might find yourself thinking...
"I've moved countries and still don't feel at home."
"I have the career I thought I wanted and I feel empty."
"I don't know who I am anymore."
"I've outgrown my old life."
"I feel something is missing and I can't explain it."
"I keep overriding myself and I don't trust my own choices."
"I want a different life but I don't know what that looks like."
Sometimes coaching begins with the quiet recognition that the life you've built no longer fits, and a curiosity about what might come next.
Your Investment
Designing a Life That Fits™ is a focused, high-touch coaching experience that reinvents your life from the inside out. It’s thorough, personal, and offered by a skilled professional with 12 years of experience working one-on-one with clients like you.
Here’s what’s inside:
3 private sessions a month
45 minute calls that can be joined from anywhere, so long as you have an internet connection
Integration of self-understanding, identity development, meaning-making, and life design
Optional reflective exercises between session
Your Investment: $600 per month ($200 per session). All prices are listed in USD, and I work internationally.
These three in-depth sessions give you all of the tools you need you to live a life that reflects who you are, what you want, and where you want to be.
You don’t need to spend one more day stuck or lost—reach out and apply for coaching today.
Frequently Asked Questions About Designing a Life That Fits™
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It means creating a life that reflects who you are becoming. Our lives so often reflect what we inherited, adapted to, or built for other people.
The process is about understanding yourself more deeply so you can make choices that feel increasingly aligned with your values, needs, and vision for your life.
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This work is for people navigating identity shifts, questions of purpose, major life transitions, or the feeling that they've outgrown the life they've built.
Some people come with a full awareness of their patterns and how they’re being held back. Others know something isn't working, but are unsure of what that is.
Either way, coaching meets you where you are, and helps you get to where you want to be.
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Coaching focuses on self-understanding, intentional growth, and applying insight to present and future choices.
While my background as a therapist informs how I think about patterns and change, coaching is not psychotherapy and is not intended to diagnose or treat mental health conditions.
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No. These are tools, not prerequisites.
Some clients love personality systems and symbolic frameworks, and others have never explored them before.
We only use what is genuinely helpful for you.
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People often come with questions like these:
"I feel like something is missing, but I'm not sure what."
"I've outgrown the life I've built."
"I want more creativity, meaning, or fulfillment."
"I keep ending up in the same situations, and I want to move forward."
"I'm navigating a move, a career shift, or a major transition."
"I want to trust myself more."
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Yes. For clients who are interested, our work may include dreams, symbolic themes, and personal imagery as additional ways of deepening self-understanding.
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Yes. I work with people navigating relocation, cross-cultural life, and location-independent lifestyles, especially when these changes bring questions of identity, belonging, and purpose.
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You don't need to arrive with everything figured out. Many people come simply knowing that something feels unfinished, outgrown, or disconnected.
Coaching can help create clarity about where you are, and where you want to go next.
Looking For More Focused Support Around Relationships & Belonging?
While Designing a Life That Fits™ explores the broader questions of self-understanding, identity development, meaning-making, and life design, some clients are specifically seeking support around relationship patterns, belonging, and relational dynamics.
For a more focused experience centered on those themes, explore:
The Belonging Reset™
The Belonging Reset™ is coaching experience that’s laser-focused on relationship patterns, boundaries, and recurring relational dynamics.
If you’re ready to understand why your relationships keep following the same patterns—and begin creating healthier ways of relating, The Belonging Reset™ is for you.
A Different Future Begins With A Different Relationship To Yourself
You don't need to have everything figured out.
You simply need a willingness to become curious about who you are, what matters most, and how you want to live.
If you're ready to deepen your self-understanding, clarify your direction, and intentionally design a life that fits, I'd love to support you.