Designing a Life That Fits™

Coaching for a life that feels true to who you are

For people who have outgrown a place, career, relationship, role, or version of themselves.

You can feel that something is changing.

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For the person you've become—and the life you're ready to create

for growth-oriented people

BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

You can feel that something is on the horizon.

Maybe you've outgrown a stage of life.
A career.
A city.
A role you've been playing for years.

Maybe you've done a lot of personal growth already.

You've read the books.
Taken the personality assessments.
Listened to the podcasts.
Collected the insights.

And yet, something still feels unresolved.

You may find yourself asking:

  • Is this the life I actually want?

  • Why do I keep repeating certain patterns?

  • What am I missing?

  • What comes next?

  • How do I create a life that feels more like my own?

Designing a Life That Fits™ is a coaching experience for people navigating the space between an old chapter and a new one.

Together, we'll explore what you've outgrown, clarify what matters most now, and begin intentionally creating a life that reflects who you are becoming.

Designing a Life That Fits™ — At a Glance

  • 6-session coaching experience

  • 45-minute virtual sessions

  • Typically completed over 6–12 weeks

  • Available internationally

  • Designed for thoughtful people navigating life transitions and identity shifts

  • Integrates pattern recognition, identity exploration, and practical life design

  • Personalized to your unique goals, values, and circumstances

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What you're experiencing right now.

You might find yourself here...

  • "I've moved countries and still don't feel at home."

  • "I have the career I thought I wanted and I feel empty."

  • "I don't know who I am anymore."

  • "I've outgrown my old life."

  • "I feel something is missing and I can't explain it."

  • "I keep overriding myself and I don't trust my own choices."

  • "I want a different life but I don't know what that looks like."

Sometimes coaching begins with the quiet recognition that the life you've built no longer fits, and a curiosity about what might come next.

You Don't Need More Information.

You Need Integration.

Many people arrive at coaching with a collection of insights but no clear path forward.

They understand their patterns intellectually.

But they haven't yet translated that understanding into meaningful change.

Designing a Life That Fits™ is a structured coaching experience that helps you move from self-awareness into intentional action.

Together we explore:

  • Who you are

  • Who you are becoming

  • What truly matters to you

  • How to create a life that reflects those values

The goal is not to become someone else, but to become more fully yourself.

the process

While every coaching relationship is unique, our work generally unfolds through four interconnected phases.

Rather than following a rigid curriculum, we'll move between these areas based on your goals, your questions, and what emerges through our conversations.

Self-Understanding

Understand yourself more clearly.

Every meaningful change begins with understanding.

Together we explore:

  • Patterns that shape your decisions and lifestyle

  • Core values

  • Motivations and blind spots

  • Personality (Enneagram)

  • Identities we take on (Archetypes)

The more clearly you understand yourself, the easier it becomes to make decisions that fit.

Identity Development

Clarify who you're becoming.

Many people come to coaching because an old identity no longer fits.

Whether you're navigating a major transition or simply sensing you've changed, this phase explores who you're becoming and what kind of life will support that version of you.

Meaning-Making

Make sense of your experiences.

Growth isn't only about deciding what comes next. It's also about understanding the experiences that shaped your journey.

Together we explore:

  • Major transitions

  • Significant life experiences

  • Internal conflicts

  • Personal values

  • Purpose and fulfillment

As your experiences begin to make more sense, clarity often follows.

Life Design

Intentionally create a life that fits.

Once clarity begins to emerge, we focus on intentional action.

This may include:

  • Career decisions

  • Boundaries

  • Lifestyle changes

  • Relocation

  • Creative pursuits

  • New directions

Together, we begin intentionally creating a life that reflects who you are now.

Areas We Can Explore Together.

Clients commonly seek support in the following areas:

  • Purpose, Fulfillment & Career

    Exploring meaningful work, career transitions, burnout recovery, purpose, and the desire to create a life that feels more aligned.

  • Life Transitions

    Navigating periods of change such as career shifts, relationship changes, relocation, reinvention, or major life decisions.

  • Expats, Travellers, & Digital Nomad Living

    Exploring identity, belonging, freedom, stability, and the challenges that often emerge when creating a life beyond conventional expectations.

  • Enneagram & Self-Understanding

    Using the Enneagram and other self-awareness frameworks to better understand motivations, patterns, strengths, blind spots, and opportunities for growth.

  • Midlife & Identity Transitions

    Exploring the questions that often emerge during midlife, including changing priorities, evolving identity, shifting definitions of success, and the desire to create a life that feels more authentic and meaningful.

  • Boundaries & People-Pleasing

    Learning to identify your needs, communicate more clearly, reduce resentment, and create healthier dynamics with others.

  • Personal Growth & Reinvention

    Supporting individuals who feel called toward deeper growth, greater authenticity, and the next chapter of their personal evolution.

You don't need more insight alone. You need integration.

Why Designing a Life Matters to Me.

I created Designing a Life That Fits™ because this isn't just work I believe in—it's work I've lived.

For much of my own life, I've been drawn to questions like:

What do I actually want? What matters most to me? What kind of life would genuinely feel like mine?

I've spent years exploring those questions, not just intellectually, but practically. Through the choices I've made about my work, relationships, travel, creativity, and the way I spend my time, I've come to see that a meaningful life rarely happens by accident. It is something we intentionally shape over time.

As someone who identifies as both a Highly Sensitive Person and an Enneagram Type 4, I know what it's like to long for a life that feels deeply authentic rather than simply successful or expected. I also know how easy it is to lose sight of your own desires beneath expectations, responsibilities, and the roles you've learned to play.

That's one of the reasons this work means so much to me. I don't believe life design is about creating a perfect life. I believe it's about creating a life that reflects who you are and what really matters to you.

Format

Designing a Life That Fits™ is a structured, time-bound coaching experience designed to create meaningful movement in a focused period.

The Program Includes:

  • Six 45-minute coaching sessions integrating insight into meaningful change.

  • Weekly or bi-weekly scheduling

  • A personalized focus based on your goals

  • Integration of self-understanding, identity development, meaning-making, and life design

  • Optional reflective exercises between sessions

Some clients focus on a single area such as career fulfillment, relationship patterns, or a life transition.

Others take a more integrated approach, exploring the connections between purpose, identity, relationships, belonging, and personal growth.

Investment

This is a focused, high-touch coaching experience designed to explore what you've outgrown and help you create a life that fits who you are now.


Designing a Life That Fits™

  • A 6-session, 1:1 coaching experience

  • $1500 (Fees are listed in USD. I work with clients internationally.)

A different future begins with a different relationship to yourself. This is the first step in your next growth journey.

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A Different Future Begins With A Different Relationship To Yourself

You don't need to have everything figured out. You don’t need a perfect plan.

You simply need a willingness to become curious about who you are, what matters most, and how you want to live.

If you're ready to deepen your self-understanding, clarify your direction, and intentionally design a life that fits, I'd love to support you.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Designing a Life That Fits™

  • It means creating a life that reflects who you are becoming—not simply continuing the one you inherited, adapted to, or built for other people.

    The process is about understanding yourself more deeply and making choices that feel increasingly aligned with your values, needs, and vision for your life.

  • This work is for people navigating identity shifts, questions of purpose, major life transitions, or the feeling that they've outgrown the life they've built. Some people come because they can already see their patterns. Others simply know something isn't working. Either way, coaching begins where you are.

  • Coaching focuses on self-understanding, intentional growth, and applying insight to present and future choices. While my background as a therapist informs how I think about patterns and change, coaching is not psychotherapy and is not intended to diagnose or treat mental health conditions.

  • No. These are tools, not prerequisites. Some clients love personality systems and symbolic frameworks. Others have never explored them before. We only use what is genuinely helpful.

  • People often come with questions like:

    • "I feel like something is missing, but I'm not sure what."

    • "I've outgrown the life I've built."

    • "I want more creativity, meaning, or fulfillment."

    • "I keep ending up in the same situations."

    • "I'm navigating a move, a career shift, or a major transition."

    • "I want to trust myself more."

  • Yes. For clients who are interested, our work may include dreams, symbolic themes, and personal imagery as additional ways of deepening self-understanding.

  • Yes. I work with people navigating relocation, cross-cultural life, and location-independent lifestyles, especially when these changes bring questions of identity, belonging, and purpose.

  • You don't need to arrive with everything figured out. Many people come simply knowing that something feels unfinished, outgrown, or disconnected. Coaching can help create clarity about where you are—and where you want to go next.

Looking For More Focused Support Around Relationships & Belonging?

While Designing a Life That Fits™ explores the broader questions of self-understanding, identity development, meaning-making, and life design, some clients are specifically seeking support around relationship patterns, belonging, and relational dynamics.

For a more focused experience centered on those themes, explore:

The Belonging Reset™

A 6-session coaching experience focused on relationship patterns, belonging, boundaries, and recurring relational dynamics.

→ Learn More About The Belonging Reset™